Im a girl who is about to make a move on a guy (one of us has to make a move) Any tips/advice?!!!?

i havent said more than 6 words to him!!! but we work in the same dept. store and weve been sublty flirting with each other....what should be the first thing i say to him when i approach him!?Im a girl who is about to make a move on a guy (one of us has to make a move) Any tips/advice?!!!?
make sure he hasnt got a g/f-maybe you know that anyway.


otherwise he would probably appreciate getting right to the point,asking what hes doing at the weekend,then hint on going somewhere togetherIm a girl who is about to make a move on a guy (one of us has to make a move) Any tips/advice?!!!?
1. fancy meeting you here


2. may i help you sir?


3. i don't think those panties are your color


or how about, Hi, I'm ______, i thought i would say hello


since we see each other here. whats your name?


if he just says his name and nothing else, he's probably very shy.


so ask, how long have you worked here? or something easy like that.


did you grow up here, or do you live around here? or go to school around here?


...just break the ice. then next time, you can say, hi ____, how's your day going?


if its meant to be, it will take a few times. to fast and its a one time shot.


to slow and nothing happens. just keep an even pace.


good luck
Start with ';I am bored'; (that gives you an out and also doesn't make you look desperate), wanna do coffee (or hang out)? Say it very casually like you really are bored. Watch closely for body language and facial expressions to see his reaction. This will give you a better idea of where you stand then his response would.
Make it subtle....not too forward.





Plan something with a couple of friends, and see if he and his friends want to 'tag along'. You're not asking him out...you're asking him to have fun!!





As far as what to say to him at work to set things in motion:





Start with this: ';Hey ____, my friends and I are going to this killer party/bar/hangout ________....tag along and we'll all have some fun.';





That way, you're NOT asking him out....you're not saying, ';I think you're adorable...DATE ME!'; You're saying...';I'm fun, my friends are fun, this is going to be fun.....be there.'; Guys like cute, FUN girls just like girls like cute FUN guys.





If he says, ';Maybe or yes.'; Just say, ';Cool, see ya there. If you need directions let me know and we'll figure something out.'; If he says, ';No';; just say....';Cool, maybe some other time.'; Either way, you walk away and HE is the one trying to figure out if you like him.....right? Yeah...you see now that's it not what to say...it's what message you want to send. You want to send the ';I might be interested message.';





Whatever he says, walk away with a smile and don't carry a L-O-N-G conversation, make the conversation SHORT. Just let the weekend come and have f-u-n.





After you get him away from the b.s. of work and responsibility....push the envelope a little if you feel some spark there.
Its best not to make the first move, it makes you seem desparate. Be yourself but dont approach him so agressively. Guys dont like that, play the mysterious card and he will want to make the moves to get to know you, not the other way around.
Well how do you approach friends? you use a central focus of conversation. Look for something that maybe you could both talk about just to get a conversation going.
Walk up to him and say, ';how you doin'; and tell him he looks good and you like him.
Just say hi and be yourself.
Good for you! Just be yourself.