Tuesday, November 22, 2011

What should i do? Tips advice help!?

Ok basically, im fourteen years old and this problem might sound petty to you but its important to me! ok so basically ever since i was in year 7 (6th grade) there's this boys whose really LIKE liked me but ive never really liked him in that way and i barely know him. ever since i started year 10 (ninth grade) i haven't spoken ot him once. the problem is that he talks about how much he loves me non-stop. im like 'hang on i dont even know you!'. anyway, it really gets on my nerves and he says all these stupid things which just makes everything so awkward. everyone else thinks its funny but i want him to stop!!!! to make it worse, the other day he asked my YOUNGER BROTHERS what i looked like naked. i mean what the hell is up with that twisted messed up kid? i was so freakin pissed off. so i could end it there: never speak to him again. but its bad because my friends having this party really soon. he was invited and i thought he couldnt come which is good but it turns out he can for the last part but it will be really annoying because theres only like 20 people going. i dont want him making any more comments and i dont want anything to do with him. none of my friends really understand but what shall i do at the party????? should i just blank him or tell him how i feel? i dont really know what he's getting at because he sort of likes me in a jokey way. this is so annoying! advice much appreciated!!! thanks.What should i do? Tips advice help!?
Well, if you don't feel the same way just ignore him at the party or anywhere else but if he starts talking about you, annoyes you or does anything you would not like him to do. go straight to him and say that you do not feel the same way about him and say that you are annoying me. other suggestions:


1) find a girl for this boy


2) get a boy friend so the this boy would know you are not available


3) talk to him (ALONE)!!What should i do? Tips advice help!?
you should probably talk to him and tell him to stop. if he continues with the ';harassing';, then you should tell someone you trust and know can help. but at the party, you need to talk to him. to clear things up. don't be afraid. if you don't, not trying to scare you but he could turn into a stalker.
i think you should tell him how you feel because it would be wrong because by not telling him you are leading him on or maybe you should give him a chance because possibly there could be feeling you didn't know you had for him somewhere in your heart. Good luck! :)
I would def. tell him how you feel and how the things he is saying to you could be ';sexual harassment'; so he should probably stop being a pervert and talking to your younger siblings.
same thing is happening to me (not the naked part though) but its a girl....what i do(and it might work for you) is to date another person...he will get depressed(i dont know if u want to hurt him like that or not but it works)....he will think you dont even care about him at all.....if you dont want to do that then act like he dosnt exist....everytime he says sometin to you dont respond or even look at him...soon he wont even talk to you....trust me i know...and yea it gets annoying when someone is staring at you NONSTOP in the middle of class

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