Any tips-advice on a swim date?

so i get an invite to swim with this girl i really really like during lunch. i'm just suddenly terrified at the thought! not that i don't like to, i just think im not fully prepared. i'm kinda worrying about first impressions. im no hunk (m more like stick) nor am i a real swimmer so i could probably do a couple of laps at most without appearing exhausted. any tips/advice/dos/donts would be greatly appreciated! :-)Any tips-advice on a swim date?
just go have fun. she obviously likes you, that's why she invited you!! she'll be way more attracted to you if you're relaxed and having a good time. she's not expecting you to take your shirt off and turn into the hulk, but she likes you. Enjoy it!!Any tips-advice on a swim date?
Contact her ASAP.


Suggest an alternate event/activity. If she's looking for your company, she'll be ok to do something else.


If she simply wants a guy with her (bodyguard) while she enjoys Summer, you can do that without drowning.


Just be sure she is aware of your limitations.


If she's checking you out, and wants to see if a potential boyfriend can keep up with her in the water, you're in trouble.


AGAIN, suggest a different activity, or let her know you will be doing MOSTLY ';watching from the water's edge.';


Good luck.


I'd frankly mostly go to see the girl in a bathing suit.


That's me, and I'm a dirty old man.
Don't forget your floaties....





ok seriously man...think about it, she's seen you with the shirt on, so do you really think she'll be surprised by what's underneath? If you're a stick with a shirt off, then you're a stick with your shirt on, so OBVIOUSLY she already knows you're a stick. Don't get scared-- be confident. There's nothing you can do about your swimming skills or your skinniness before your swim date.





oh and here's a great idea: if she mentions, mutters, jokes, or otherwise make ANY comments at all about your skinniness, immediately make a joke or a seemingly playful remark about one of her insecurities (such as her small breasts). It will put her on her heels and will leave her wondering about this new mysterious side of you. Plus, guess who will be WAY more insecure and self-conscious than you for the rest of the day. Then it'll at least be a level playing field, you know? I'm telling you it works. And what do you have to lose?





*ok, that last paragraph may have been bad advice.
she cant expect you to be a superhero when you take your shirt off, just like you cant expect her to be a gorgous model. just be yourself. shes proabably a bit nervous too. it'll be a lot of fun, because if you like her you can get close to her and shes not wearing much. that says that shes comfertable with you, because she wouldnt invite someone she didnt like or thought would judge her to go swimming with her and see her in pratcially nothing all wet. she likes you, just have fun and be yourself. :) %26lt;3
hahas, swim, normally, but try to make the swim strokes more appealing. =P


if u have spare time, maybe u could hop on to the pool to practice?
have fun... dont drown,dont wear tight trunks that show your bulge...play games (with floats)....try showing off abit.








good luck
Be prepared to explain to her about shrinkage.
stop worring go out be yourself and have a good time : o )





She obviously likes you to ask you so think 1st impression is already done
well definitely go thats the most important but let her know whats bothering u so she is not surprised
DON'T DROWN!
stop worrying, u say u like her and u didn't even have ask her out so she must b interested
jerk off in the bathroom just beforehand to try and prevent early erections
just relax, and be yourself and dont be to nervous
dnt worry ab it just be urself..if shes a good person n likes u she will like u 4


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