So me and my boyfriend want to have sex. We are both virgins and we are ready. I don't know ifs hes going to go all the way or not, but I'm pretty sure hes going to pull out right before he ejaculates. Yes we are going to use protection. I don't know about lube, any tips? I know its going to hurt since I'm a girl and because iv never used tampons, i know its different for all girls but any tips on how much it might hurt? Can anyone just give me all the advice they can.
Also don't say ';wait till your married'; or any of that stuff.
I just want straight good answers.
ThanksFirst time sex tips/advice (ladies)?
dont over think about it or stress about it just relax and let it happen, if he thinks he knows what hes doing, let him lead but dont let him push you out of your comfort zone. he wont judge you if he loves you. use a lubricated condom and make sure he takes it slow. if it hurts really bad then youre not ready. the more stressed you are the tighter your muscles are. it really shouldnt hurt too bad til the next day. the more foreplay (fingering, oral..) the better because the natural lubrication (you gettin wet) in combination with the condom makes it easier to go in.
he shouldnt go all the way in the first thrust, he needs to ease into it.
put something down underneath you guys so yall dont get blood on the sheets and bed...
any other questions, message me.First time sex tips/advice (ladies)?
well i wouldnt be too worried about the lube if your using a condom but it might hurt a little, it depends on the person though. my first time hurt a little at first but its gets better with time, it should only hurt for the first minute or two if it does at all. also you shouldnt have to pull out if your using a condom cause nothing wil get inside you. just take it slow at first and youll be more at ease and it wont hurt as much.
good luck!
when you say you are both ready, what that does mean? do you have a job, house, car? what happens if the condom breaks and you get pregnant? are ready to have a baby? do you even know how much to raise a child theses days? if i was you i will wait till you are ready, mentally, financially and emotionally.
well you need some kind of lube. or it would hurt rubbing action. try a cucumber or carrot in and out feel how things could be. touch yourself to get yourself horny and wet. play with yourself and watch in a mirror. just stay protected unless your wealthy and can afford to have an accident of getting pregnant. you dont want to wait fine but a lot of guys dont want to marry someone whose had lots of sex with other guys. good luck
Can't tell you about the pain, but 1) Look for a condom with lube already on it and make sure there is A LOT of foreplay. 2) If he is using a condom there is no reason to pull out, but I guess if you really want to be extra safe that's cool...
nibble on his ear!
give him a bj...
idk but hell yeah it hurts i have done it with my bf like 4 or 5 times and it still hurts!
Tip: Dont get knocked up.
Firstly, if you want him in control, it's easier if you're on the bottom. :)
Well the beauty of you both being virgins is that because it's painful for you the first time, it's good that he won't last long lol
The pain isn't that bad, I've heard. It's different for everyone but I tend to be hurt easily so it was pretty bad for me. -And I had even broken myself in beforehand! :P There is two types of pain. The first is when the hymen breaks and that officially takes away your virginity. That's inside and it can make some women bleed a little. The second is the stretching to accommodate the size of the 'intrusion' but that pain is actually something of a turn-on :P
Why would you make him pull out if he's using protection? Lube might be a good idea for your first time but otherwise you shouldn't need it. If you want it enough this time, you might not even need it anyway.
Take it slowly and you'll soon find yourself enjoying it. There's nothing to worry about it the least. -It's giving birth that worries me lol :)
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